For millennial women who did everything right but something’s still off.

We figure out what you actually want in your career and relationships by understanding the programming that got downloaded onto you, then building a real strategy and holding you to executing.

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You did everything you were supposed to do.

The degree. The career. The relationships. The money.

Your life looks wonderful in your Instagram posts. But somewhere between the the 12-step skin care routine, the promotions, the 10k steps per day, the performance reviews, the keeping up with your girlfriends, the 120g of protein, the 90oz of water, the laundry, the….

You're exhausted from the constant inner battle. You worked so hard for this life and now a part of you hates it. Pouring energy into a soul sucking job while your entire identity is wrapped up in what you've built. The fatigue is real.

You're starting to realize that success and fulfillment are two different things. And now you're wondering… what now?

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The mission is simple,

Not a “better version” of the successful life you built for everyone else. But a life that’s fulfilling and actually yours.

You’re smart. You’re capable. And you’re successful.

And you’re also burnt out.

But you’re not burnt out from doing too much. You’re burnt out from the program that’s been running you for the last 3 decades.

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Deprogram.
Rediscover.
Implement.
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The millennial mentor method experience

A high-touch, 1:1 experience designed to catapult you from stuck (and a little empty if we’re being honest) to living YOUR actual definition of a dream life. Using a proprietary method rooted in neuroscience, psychology and neurobiology, we uncover what you actually want in your career and relationships, without blowing up your life to get there.

We work with who you are at your core. Not who you've been told to be, what you've been programmed to want, or what you decided you liked when you were still changing your Myspace top 8. Just you. For the first time in a long time.

Here’s what we do together:

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Deprogram. We identify the programming that's been running your life. (if youre not doing this step, nothing else is going to stick, and its probably why you’ve tried other things and they haven’t worked.)
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Rediscover. We strip back and find out who you actually are underneath all of it, what you want, what lights you up, what a life that's actually yours would look like.
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Implement. We build the strategy and I hold you to it. Between every single session.

This isn’t therapy.It’s not a course you buy that sits in your email and you literally never use.Its not regular coaching.It’s the millennial mentor method.For millennials, created by a millennial whose already been through this.

Find out which program has been running your life:

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the method

The millennial mentor method is the coaching container for women who are done leading lives with a set of rules that got created when they were still wearing Cinderella pajamas. Rooted in neuroscience, psychology and neurobiology, Melissa uses her signature framework to turn the “I’m fine” text to your mom into “fuck I haven’t felt this good in years” without blowing up your whole life.

We’re catapulting you from waking up every morning with the weight of an elephant on your chest to the relief you’ve been secretly looking for, for the past three years.

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You're in the middle of a shift.

"I did everything right and I'm so unhappy and I don't know where I'm going."
"I let go of a 12 year relationship and an 11 year career. I don't know where I'm headed but I know I can't keep doing this."
"Mourning the life I thought I'd have wasn't in the plan. But here we are."

Maybe you've said the things above out loud. Maybe you haven't. Maybe you've just thought it, or saw someone else post about it on Instagram and thought, damn, same girl.

The pivot you're feeling is real.

What's missing is someone who will show you the programming underneath it, build you a strategy for what comes next, and actually hold you to it, so this shift doesn't leave you alone, confused and even more destabilized for the next three years.

That's where I come in.

If it's this time next year and you're living the exact same life… do you actually like it?

Because that's the real question nobody's asking you. Maybe your mom, your sister, your partner. You've talked to them about this. But have they helped you move? Change? Make progress?

Or is that gnawing feeling still there every night?

If it is, you’re ready babe, hit the button below.

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